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Wisdom Wednesday

The Questions That Matter: What I’m Really Trying to Learn

Mell D'Clute
SuperMell sits cross-legged in a calm, softly lit room surrounded by open notebooks and glowing papers. She wears her signature Nightwing-inspired black suit with a stylized purple “M” and purple glasses. Her expression is focused and reflective. Diana, her short-haired black cat with a white chest tuft, is curled up peacefully beside her. The atmosphere is quiet and thoughtful, symbolizing a moment of deep inner questioning and wisdom.

🧠 The Questions That Matter: What I’m Really Trying to Learn

When you’re searching for the next chapter of your career, people often ask:

“What do you want to do?” “What kind of job are you looking for?” “What’s your ideal role?”

They’re fair questions—but they’re not always the right ones. At least, not for me. Not right now.

What I’m really trying to figure out isn’t just what I want to do—it’s what I need to feel, what I want to bring, and how I want to live while I’m doing it.

🔍 More Than a Job Title

I’m preparing for some informational interviews soon (a step that already feels like progress), but I’ve been surprised by what’s coming up in my own reflections.

Here are the real questions I keep circling back to:

  • What kind of energy do I want around me every day?
  • Where do I feel like my values and voice actually matter?
  • What makes me feel both calm and capable?
  • How much structure do I need—how much freedom?
  • What kind of work makes me feel connected, not just useful?

These questions don’t always fit neatly on a resume. But they matter.

🛠️ Shaping the Work Around the Person

For years, I thought I had to mold myself into whatever the role needed. Be adaptable. Be professional. Be “easy to work with.”

But the wiser I get, the more I realize: The job should also fit me. Not just my skills, but my brain. My nervous system. My creative drive. My values.

This shift in thinking feels subtle—but radical.

It’s not about eliminating hard days. It’s about creating a life where I’m not constantly working against myself.

🐾 Diana Already Knows

Diana has never questioned what makes her feel safe, calm, or curious. She doesn’t force herself into places that don’t suit her—and she definitely doesn’t apologize for walking away when something feels off.

She knows what environments serve her. She knows what comfort feels like. And she always finds the warmest spot in the room.

Sometimes I think she’s the wisest one in the house.

💬 Final Thought

We spend a lot of time trying to figure out what job will “work.”

But maybe the deeper wisdom comes from asking: What kind of life do I want this job to support?

What questions are you really trying to answer?

Tactical Tuesday

🕵️‍♀️ Tracking the Clues: What My Work History Reveals

Mell D'Clute
SuperMell stands in a detective-style office wearing her Nightwing-inspired black suit with a stylized purple “M” and purple glasses. Behind her, a corkboard displays pinned notes, string maps, and folders symbolizing patterns in her work history. Diana, a short-haired black cat with a white tuft on her chest, sits beside a stack of files, calmly observing the scene. The atmosphere is focused and thoughtful, evoking introspection and strategic analysis.

🧩 Career as a Mystery Map

Looking back at my work history sometimes feels like flipping through an unfinished comic book. The theme shifts, the art style changes, and the heroine keeps popping into new situations with a skillset that’s still unfolding.

But as I review my resume more carefully—especially while preparing for upcoming informational interviews—I’m starting to notice patterns. Clues. Foreshadowing.

It’s not just a jumble of unrelated jobs. It’s a map of what matters to me, and what I bring to the table.

🔍 The Skills That Keep Showing Up

No matter the job title or setting, certain through-lines keep emerging:

  • Clear communication (writing, explaining, simplifying)
  • Creative thinking (solving weird problems with weirder ideas)
  • Process awareness (understanding how systems flow—and where they break)
  • People-centered focus (empathy, patience, emotional insight)

Even in roles that felt like survival work, I brought my full self—and that self has always cared about making things clearer, kinder, and more effective.

🧠 Shifting the Narrative

It’s easy to look at a scattered job history and think, “This doesn’t make sense.” But that’s only true if the only story you’re telling is a linear climb.

If the story is about growth, resilience, and creative adaptability—then everything fits. Every twist, pause, and pivot added something. I just didn’t see it until now.

🗂️ Where This Insight Is Taking Me

This process of mapping out my history is helping me prepare for more intentional conversations about where I want to go next. And more than that—it’s reminding me that I have more strengths than I tend to give myself credit for.

So instead of treating my past like a puzzle I have to solve, I’m choosing to view it as a guide. And I’m following the clues forward.

🐾 Diana Knows Where She’s Been

If Diana had a work history, it would include professional lounging, sunbeam sampling, and expert supervision of creative humans. But one thing she doesn’t do? Question her worth.

She knows she belongs wherever she lands—whether that’s on my keyboard, in the laundry basket, or beside me during a blog-writing session.

Maybe we all deserve to feel that kind of certainty about where we’ve been.

💬 Final Thought

Your work history isn’t just a list—it’s a legacy of learning. When you read between the lines, the plot might reveal more direction than you thought.

What clues have been quietly waiting in your own story?

Wisdom Wednesday

Unlocking the Data: What Personality Tests Actually Taught Me

Mell D'Clute
A superhero in a black and purple suit (SuperMell) stands at a futuristic console displaying personality and career assessment data. Charts show terms like “Artistic” and “People & Ideas.” A black cat with a white chest patch (Diana) taps one chart with her paw. Light shines on a glowing path in the background.

🧩 Introduction

I’ve taken plenty of personality tests and career assessments over the years—sometimes out of curiosity, sometimes out of sheer desperation to find direction. But recently, something shifted. As I reviewed the results from my Strong Interest Inventory and other tools, I realized these weren’t just abstract categories or career buzzwords—they were mirrors reflecting parts of myself I’d undervalued or never fully understood.

🔍 Insights That Mattered

Here are the biggest takeaways I’ve gained from digging into my own data:

  • Creativity isn’t a side quest—it’s my main mission. My highest theme was Artistic, with top interest areas in Visual Arts & Design, Writing & Mass Communication, and Performing Arts. That’s not just about hobbies—it’s how I process the world and express who I am.
  • Structure and creativity can coexist. A surprise high score in Office Management helped me see I thrive when creativity is paired with organization, logistics, and coordination. That explains why I’ve always enjoyed project-based work that blends planning with visual or written output.
  • Working with people and ideas fits me best. I strongly prefer collaboration and idea-sharing over competition or hard sales. My style leans toward team participation, reflection, and leading by example—not by shouting the loudest.
  • Risk-taking? Not my thing—and that’s okay. I prefer stability, clarity, and thoughtful decisions. That doesn’t mean I can’t grow or adapt—it means I build success through intentional, sustainable steps.

🧭 So, What Does It All Mean?

It means the roles I used to think of as “just jobs” were actually clues pointing toward my real strengths. From print production to blog writing, training design to creative coordination, I’m most energized when I’m helping people understand things—visually, emotionally, or through clear structure.

These assessments didn’t tell me what I should be. They helped me name what I already am.

🐾 Diana’s Take:

While I was busy unlocking personality insights, Diana was unlocking the snack drawer. But if she could talk, I think she’d agree that I’m at my best when I’m tuned into who I really am. (Especially when that includes setting aside time to cuddle, reflect, and chase laser dots—her version of balance.)

💬 Final Thought

Personality and career tools aren’t meant to box us in—they’re meant to give us language for what we already sense. When used wisely, they can light up the map of your career path. The road ahead is still yours to shape—but now, with clearer signs and stronger footing.

Tool Time Tuesday

🛠️ Suiting Up — Tools I’ll Use to Match My Career Archetype

Mell D'Clute
A digital illustration of SuperMell standing confidently in front of a futuristic open locker. She wears a black suit with a purple Nightwing-style “M” logo, purple glasses, and shoulder-length brown hair. Inside the glowing locker are high-tech tools labeled “FOCUS,” “STRUCTURE,” “CREATIVITY,” and “REFLECTION.” Diana, a black cat with a white patch on her chest, is curled up on a soft purple cloth at the bottom of the locker. Behind SuperMell, a digital screen displays personality traits and a career profile.

🦸‍♀️ Choosing My Gear for the Mission Ahead

The Strong Interest Inventory confirmed what I’ve suspected for a long time: I’m equal parts Creative, Organizer, and Supportive Strategist.

I don’t just want a job—I want a mission. And like any hero, I need the right gear for the job. This post is about the tools I’m equipping myself with to match my archetype and stay focused, creative, and confident as I move into this next chapter.

🧠 Career Archetype Breakdown

My career interests, according to the SII, align with a few key themes:

  • Creative Realist: I solve problems with flair and structure.
  • Supportive Coordinator: I thrive when I’m managing people, projects, or communication with empathy.
  • Curious Analyst: I love organizing chaos, breaking things into patterns, and understanding how systems work.

So what tools help me be that hero?

🎒 Tools I’m Packing for My Path

📋 1. My Application Tracker Spreadsheet

Keeps me organized, strategic, and emotionally grounded. It has:

  • Status updates
  • Deadline flags
  • Emotional check-in columns. Because clarity is power.

🧠 2. Notion & Google Keep

For flexible idea capturing, resource lists, and documenting wins (yes, even the small ones). Think of them as my digital utility belt.

🗃️ 3. Blog Archive System

I’m tracking focus keyphrases, meta descriptions, and tags for every blog post. Not just for SEO—but to see my evolution.

This is my communication log—proof that I’m growing, connecting, and creating consistently.

📚 4. Career Research Vault

I’m starting a collection of:

  • Job titles that excite me
  • Workplaces aligned with my values
  • Interview tips & resume language

This is my intel library. No mission goes without recon.

🐾 Diana’s Favourite “Tool”? Me.

Let’s be honest—Diana doesn’t use tools. She is the tool. A purring productivity beacon who reminds me to take breaks and realign with my mission (especially if I’m ignoring dinner time).

💬 Final Thought

This next phase of my career isn’t about luck—it’s about readiness. With the right tools, even big shifts feel doable. I may not know the exact destination yet, but I’m suiting up with intention.

Because the best heroes don’t wait for a sign. They build the toolkit and step into the mission anyway.

Soft-Paw Sunday

🐾 Superpowers in Stillness — Reflecting on What I Really Want

Mell D'Clute
A comic book-style digital illustration shows SuperMell wrapped in a blanket, sitting in a cozy, softly lit room with stars glowing through a nearby window. She’s journaling by hand in a notebook, lost in quiet reflection. Above her, a faint glowing constellation shaped like a question mark hovers, symbolizing introspection. Diana, her black cat with a small white heart-shaped patch on her chest, is curled up peacefully beside her, nestled into the crook of her leg. The atmosphere is serene, contemplative, and comforting.

🌌 The Power of the Pause

Some answers don’t arrive when you chase them. They appear when you’re still.

This week, as I’ve let myself breathe—really breathe—I’ve noticed the quietest parts of me starting to speak up. Not in shouts. In whispers.

They’re saying: this is what matters. And for the first time in a while, I’m actually listening.

🧭 What I’m Beginning to Understand

After taking the Strong Interest Inventory and reflecting on everything I’ve done over this break, I’ve realized:

  • I want to do creative work that also serves a purpose.
  • I want to use my gift for organizing chaos in ways that feel satisfying, not draining.
  • I don’t want to “climb”—I want to contribute.
  • I want to be around kind people who care about what they’re building.
  • I want the freedom to think, feel, and do… without masking who I am.

Stillness gave me space to see these truths. Now I want to design a path that makes room for them.

🛌 Stillness Is a Strategy

It may look like lying on the couch or taking a slow walk or journaling in the quiet hours—but that’s where the groundwork happens.

The same way muscles grow in recovery, insight grows in stillness.

And if I want a life aligned with my values and interests, I need to give it space to reveal itself.

🐾 Diana’s Perfect Pace

Diana never forces clarity. She moves slowly, curls up in warm spaces, and stares thoughtfully out the window for hours.

Somehow, she always knows where to go next. I think I’m starting to understand why.

💬 Final Thought

Today isn’t about action—it’s about awareness. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned in this season, it’s this:

Stillness is a superpower. Especially when you use it to ask the right question:

What do I really want?

Mission Monday

🛡️ Target Acquired(ish): Redefining What I’m Aiming For

Mell D'Clute
A digital illustration in comic book and sci-fi style shows SuperMell standing confidently in front of a glowing mission console displaying a digital target interface. Floating icons represent various career roles and industries. She wears a focused expression as she scans the screen. Diana, a black cat with golden eyes and a white heart-shaped chest patch, perches nearby on the console, gazing skeptically at one of the job titles. The scene is lit in purples and blues, evoking focus and futuristic clarity.

🧭 Scanning for the Right Coordinates…

I don’t have a precise target just yet — no dream job pinned to a vision board, no map with a glowing “X marks the spot.” But I am adjusting my scanner.

This week, I’m preparing for something important: my first session with a career counsellor. And I’m approaching it the same way a strategist plans a mission — not with all the answers, but with better questions.

🧠 Here’s What I Know So Far

I’ve learned a lot about myself through blogging, studying, and reflecting these past few months. I may not have a specific job title locked in, but I do know this:

🦸‍♀️ I thrive when I can:

  • Bring clarity to chaos
  • Coordinate people, timelines, and tools
  • Solve creative and logistical problems
  • Blend art and structure
  • Support others while working independently
  • Add value through empathy, organization, and thoughtful systems
  • Be part of something that builds (not just sells)

🌟 Possible Fields That Might Be the Right Fit

From everything I’ve learned about myself (and through feedback in this blog journey), I’m keeping my radar open for roles that combine project management, creativity, and people-centred work.

Potentially:

  • Production Coordination in Animation, Film, or Creative Studios
  • Project or Workflow Specialist in Digital Marketing or Publishing
  • Operations Coordinator for arts orgs, education, or nonprofits
  • Creative Services Manager for studios or agencies
  • Internal Communications or People Experience roles
  • Process Improvement Roles tied to Lean Six Sigma and systems building

I’m not choosing one yet — but this is where the signal seems strongest.

🗨️ What I Hope to Ask My Career Counsellor

  • What job titles actually reflect the skills I love using?
  • What industries value creative coordination the way I do?
  • How do I best talk about my transferable skills when I’ve done a bit of everything?
  • What’s the bridge between what I’ve done and where I want to go?
  • And how do I make that bridge visible to the people reading my resume?

🐾 Diana Would Just Sit on the Job Postings

Diana doesn’t worry about targets. She knows her skills — napping, purring, looking majestic — and she simply waits for the right sunbeam to show up.

Honestly? Not a bad model for calm confidence.

💬 Final Thought

I may not have my exact job target locked in yet. But I’ve got focus. I’ve got support. And I’ve got questions that matter.

Sometimes the mission isn’t to strike — it’s to clarify.

Because the clearer I get, the better I’ll know when I’ve found the right mark.